Anonymous Confessions

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In the last few years a number of websites, similar to Anonyming, have been created that offer visitors the chance to share their thoughts and feelings online without the need to indicate their identity to others.

These ‘Anonymous Confessions’ sites, also called ‘Secret Confessions’ sites or ‘True Confessions’ sites, allow people to post anything on their mind to a website without having to be concerned about repercussions. There are many benefits to using these websites, however those posting should do so with caution.

Related Article: Anonymous Social Networks

Anonymity Is Scarce

In a culture that everyday offers fewer opportunities for any privacy, there can be a strong appeal to expression that’s not self-regulated due to the potential for a negative outcome.

Most people have had the experience of posting comments to Facebook or other social networking sites only to delete them because of concern that someone will be offended. This natural check on our expression can feel very limiting in some ways.

In fact we may have very few outlets for our honest opinions. Concerned about the impact our views and expression may have on friends, family, or employers, most people simply avoid discussing thoughts and opinions that are more challenging or controversial. As a result, people often simply don’t have any way to express many of their feelings. This can be a strong reason why anonymous confessions sites are an important resource.

We Need Emotional Outlets

Self-expression is an important part of mental health.

The study of psychology has made it clear that we need to vent; that it’s literally unhealthy to keep strong emotions inside. And yet, most people don’t go to therapy or have any outlet for those emotions. While most have friends and family they can trust with their feelings and thoughts, some things we’d like to express are simply too unpopular, shocking, or negative for even those we love.

This can be where anonymous confessions site come into play. We don’t want to shout our feelings at a wall. An important part of venting is knowing someone is listening. With websites that allow us to express ourselves to an audience, but don’t require that we share our name or email, we are able to have the experience of getting things off our chest with an audience without the possibility that anyone we know will be offended.

Boundaries

While there are many benefits to anonymous confessions sites and social networks, it’s also important that people have a certain amount of caution. While most sites that offer anonymous posting don’t heavily edit their content, there are some things that aren’t allowed on these sites and also some things that visitors simply should not say.

Most websites that offer anonymous posting have guidelines in place that restrict the discussion of certain topics and kinds of information.

It is often against the rules on these sites to post confessions of a felony as that puts the website administrator in a position to feel the need to report a users comments. Topics such as rape, suicide, pedophilia, and murder may be restricted for this reason.

Anonymous Confession Websites

Over the past three years a number of websites have been created that offer the opportunity for mostly unregulated speech. The following are a few of the more prominent.

Websites That Feature Anonymous Confessions

Are Anonymous Confessions Really Secret?

While anonymous confessions sites may not maintain a log of a users name or email, all visits to any website are logged with the hosting service provider and so in some sense anonymity only goes so far. For this reason it is best for people to avoid advocating violence against government officials or any acts of terrorism. It is also suggested, as stated above, that people not confess to felonies.

In this atmosphere of diminishing privacy and NSA data collection, it’s important that people realize that ‘anonymous’ sites are not 100% anonymous. Generally speaking, users can expect their comments to remain anonymous. But it’s the responsibility of the user to avoid saying things that in public terms might lead to a police, FBI, NSA, or secret service investigation.

The Legality of Anonymous Confessions

Anonymous speech is strongly protected under the law. Your speech is protected as private when you speak to your therapist, your lawyer, or a journalist. And online anonymity is also protected. It is intended under the law that you should be able to share information without fear of reprisal, once again given that you aren’t advocating terrorism or admitting to felonies.

Anonymous confessions sites and anonymous social networks can provide the opportunity to speak freely.

Many of these sites and services are specifically meant to allow people a freedom to speak they do not have elsewhere. Unfortunately, with recent revelations about government intelligence gathering it would seem that people no longer can have the expectation that anything they do online is really private.

The Politics of Anonymous Confessions

While it may be the case that your privacy is protected under the law, there can be no protection from powerful government entities that are themselves breaking the law by violating your privacy. Those using anonymous confessions sites should be very cautious about what they express, even when privacy is guaranteed.

As a result of recent revelations about NSA domestic spying there is a growing movement of people who are demanding that their right to privacy online and off be better protected. However, not everyone agrees.

On one side of the debate are those pushing for greater protection of privacy. On the other side are those who believe that we must give intelligence and law enforcement agencies wide latitude in combating threats to our safety.

Regardless of your position on this issue, it’s becoming an important political concern for many and something that will be hotly debated for many years to come.

Have Fun with Caution

Ultimately, assuming you aren’t confessing to anything criminal, anonymous confessions sites can be a very healthy outlet. As more people find these sites and the concept becomes more popular we can expect to see more sites and new and creative ways that they allow for anonymous expression.

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  1. Anonymous says:

    God is evil

  2. Anonymous says:

    i don’t like nosey pushy bitches, some niggar nosey snot kept bullying me pumping for information that was none of her business. I wanted to hit her face in. she a little too over empowered for her own good, me thinks.

  3. Anonymous says:

    bully bong bad

  4. Anonymous says:

    I have a crush on my best friend and I have for a while but there’s no way she’ll see me as anything other than her best friend bc I’ve always told ppl I’m straight. For the most part I used to believe that bc I only had a crush on her and no other guy so maybe I’m bi curious? But my parents would never except me and idk what my friends would think. A lot of them are bi so I almost feel like it’s too “mainstream” (idk how to explain, if Everyone is bi then I don’t want to be bi) the friend I like (her name is Amy if anyone cares, super nice, great fashion sense and smart too) has two ppl who like her already but she rejected them both. Plus hoco is coming up and we have a running joke that I’m going w her but I really do want to go. Oh and I’m friends with her ex gf which complicates things

  5. Anonymous says:

    Please try not to judge me too much as this forum is supposed to be accepting and non-judgemental. I feel extremely unsure of where my life is headed right now. My life is a mess right now. I am a 42 year old heterosexual woman. I am divorced since April 2018. I have 14year old daughter. My ex husband business venture collapsed.We lost our home. The bank foreclosed on our house.All the while, he has done our finances and never really was open to my having access to them. I think it was a control issue at first and later he didn’t want me to know. My ex husband is unemployed since his company declared bankruptcy in December 2017.

    For the past three months i am renting a house on a month to month lease. My landlord lives in the house next door. She is skinny really short like 5ft3 wrinkled face thin lips creepy green eyes grayhaired masculine 55year old woman. I am 5ft10 tall heterosexual curvy hourglass shaped attractive brunette. I have very large breasts and i do have a big butt. I don’t intend to dress in any particular ‘way’ for anyone. I just wear what I like. I don’t ‘ask’ for anything. I don’t ask to be groped. I wear clothes that fit me properly. Most of my outfit are satin pant and skirt suits satin coats and satin and silk blouses. I am always on high heels and full make up on. If you are curvy, tall and busty, many clothes tend to look sexier on you than on a thin person. So things that fit properly that are relatively conservative can be suddenly too revealing and sexy when you put it on. This happens to me a lot. I wear almost always my satin and silk blouses fully buttoned to the top combined with a satin skirt or satin pants. I don’t wear anything vulgar but because of my body type anything i wear looks tight on me. Being tall and curvy draws attention on its own. This can be both positive and negative. I tower over plenty of men and women. I was sexualised from a very early age, and shamed for the way my body looks – something I have no control over. I can’t help how wide my hips grow or how big my breasts get.

    My mother used to shame me for the way my body looked. If I wanted to wear a skirt or dress, she always discouraged it, she always thought my skirt was ‘too short’ or ‘too tight’, or there was something wrong with my dress-sense. There’s always guys flirting or asking me for my number. When I go out in public guys start talking to me and subtly try to ask me out. I have trouble being mean so i cant get them to leave me alone. I end up getting stressed by it. The irony is that all this time I’ve been afraid of men, perceiving any touch as a sexual advance that I should fear – when really, it was a short, skinny old woman I should have feared.

    About two months ago i arrived home home from work and my landlord was there on the driveway. I got out of my car and this woman my landlord walked up to me and said “Wow! Your breasts are sooo large! Can i touch them” AS she was already grabbing and squeezing them! I just said it looks like you are already touching them. In the moment, I found myself laughing it off. And this woman is really short, her head is exactly the level of my breasts. Since then this woman my landlord thinks she can just walk up and feel my boobs or grab my ass when ever she feels like it!! She routinely slaps or rubs my butt. She loves to squeeze or jiggle my breasts and tell me how soft and squishy they are. She thinks they are toys. Also she is always grabbing, slapping and rubbing my ass. .

    Usually it happens on the driveway. This woman my landlord waits for me to come home from work on every work day. She never touches me in front of my daughter.She often hugs me around my waist and then proceeds to hump me (From behind usually but sometimes from the front)in a joking playful way. I usually just feel like a deer in headlights. I hate that i have grown accustomed to it.

    But this woman my landlord REDUCED my rent by 50%. So I’m willing to sit/stand out the awkward groping and hugging and just think of something else while it’s happening. Should I feel ashamed of myself? I am a weak, spineless person. This friendly groper landlord says to me that because her face is at level with my breasts and I am rather large she finds touching, squeezing, rubbing, and patting them and resting her head on them comforting. She said that she finds great comfort doing this when she’s stressed. But it is all my fault. She thinks that my breasts are a readily-available source of comfort for her. She said that because i am much taller than her, the hugs make her feel very secure and cared for.

    This creepy short skinny woman my landlord hasn’t pushed me into having sex so far. It’s just the obsessive groping me and touching me. If I just stand there, she would stay there for a long time just feeling my breasts and squishing them or whatever. Also she will just full on grab my butt. It is super annoying. I’m just standing there, and she’ll walk by me and take a swipe at my butt. This short skinny woman is always commenting that I am so tall, big and soft. She tells me often that she likes that I am always dressed up in satin and silk and that she likes touching my clothes. I feel deeply ashamed of myself. I don’t know what to do. I feel like such a bad person. .

    About a month ago i arrived from work and my landlord was standing on the driveway with her friend(this short like 5 ft 2 skinny freckled face green eyes thin lips red haired masculine woman in her early 50s). They walked up to me and this ginger woman my landlord’s friend complimented my boobs. Then my landlord said to her friend “Touch her boobs if you want, she wont mind!” Then this short skinny ugly ginger woman reached with her both hands and gave my breasts what I can only describe as a jiggle-squish. She commented on how soft they feel. I was speechless. Since then this ginger woman started touching and squeezing my breasts and slapping and rubbing my ass , in a joking/playful way on every encounter. These two gropers women my landlord and her friend seem harmless to me because I am physically stronger than them i am 5ft10 tall well built well endowed and curvy.They are both short like 5ft2/5ft3 tall skinny.I am always on high heels they are always in flat shoes.Standing next to me they look like midgets.Also these two weird old women don’t look threatening. They are both creepy and ugly but they are tiny,short and skinny women in their 50s. But they are taking advantage of me, and i am afraid that they will just go even further. I am 100% straight. I’ve never had any desire to do anything sexual with a female. In all honest just thinking about possibly kissing a female makes me cringe. .

    But this woman my landlord reduced my rent by 50% and I am so grateful I let her do anything she want.That is why i decided to try tolerating groping, rubbing, humping and hugging by her. It is pretty gruesome. She gets away with groping me all the time, simply because i let her. I just automatically want to do everything possible to keep conflict down with her and I always sacrifice my dignity for it. This woman my landlord makes a lot of comments about how tall,big and soft i am.It is weird and creepy.She is obsessed with my height.She often compliments me on my outfit commenting that i am extremely fashionable, elegant, glamorous, and classy and that she likes touching my clothes.She often hugs me from behind placing her hands on my breasts.Also she always hugs me in full frontal hug pressing her face on my breasts.

    I know other people my new neighbors probably laugh at me behind my back because of this situation with this woman groper landlord. One woman said to me that I make stupid faces while this woman groper is groping me and humping me. She also said that it is bizarre that standing next to the groper I look like a giant and I let her get by with it. I just laughed and replied to this woman that we (me and my landlord) just have a weird bond like that. Other people neighbors probably think that I am okay with it. Most of my new neighbors here think I’m stuck up overdressed snob because I tend to ignore them.Not because I don’t like them or think I’m better than them, but because I’m scared of them, or I think they don’t like me! To be completely honest, I’d rather them see me that way…stuck up. It makes me feel better when they think I’m stuck up. Alot of people ( females in general) pre-dislike me, unto they get to know me and find out that I’m a not stuck on myself at all.I’m the kind of person that only speaks if I have something to say and I keep my business to myself.I like satin and silk clothes and I wear them well.I have a more stylish sense of fashion. I never wear anything trashy, I keep myself well covered and strive for professionalism and class. When I am feeling stressed, blue, or overwhelmed, I will dress up a bit more than usual and put more time and effort into my hair and make up. I think it’s part of the ‘fake it til you make it’ mentality that I have adopted. If I look pretty, it helps me to feel a little better.And very often, to cheer myself up, I’ll wear red.Btw, that doesn’t mean I’m always down when I wear red, just that sometimes red is my way of subconsciously sending myself positive messages. It puts me in better spirits when I look fab. It helps me feel fab on less fab days.I always dress up when I’m feeling down.In fact I think the more down I feel the more I dress up, put make up and such.Partly because it’s the fake till you make mentality, partly because I have no patience for feeling sorry for myself.I definitely feel better and more competent/capable of getting through the day if I dress up a little extra on the days when I don’t feel good, but have something pretty important going on.I’ve been doing a lot of that lately.

  6. Anonymous says:

    cunt bucket nig woman dori

  7. Anonymous says:

    cum on the bun.

  8. Anonymous says:

    bum on the rum.

  9. Anonymous says:

    I’m so ugly and I don’t know how anyone will ever love me.

  10. Anonymous says:

    i have ana.

  11. Anonymous says:

    I just want to move on with my life and be on my own. I’m tired of having to rely on everyone else. I’m done with it.

  12. Anonymous says:

    I’m in love with someone who will never return the feelings.

  13. Anonymous says:

    im depressed

  14. Anonymous says:

    sksksksksks

  15. Anonymous says:

    I like to dress like a girl. Passable too when I do. Used to be for a girl I was with, but she left so I’m gonna get a guy to try me out

  16. Anonymous says:

    I think little boys are cute

  17. Anonymous says:

    C if your reading this, the website isn’t working for me. idk what’s happening. i don’t want to stop talking to you

  18. Anonymous says:

    I’m only here to see if anyone’s life is as shitty as mine

  19. Anonymous says:

    I’m a 50 yr old housewife who loves to send nude photos of my big titties and shaved pussy to strangers I’m 5’2″ 135 lbs 38dd breast like to show you all@ 6013411649 ms p

  20. Anonymous says:

    I’m bi, and my family is Christian. I haven’t heard them openly talk about the lgbtq+ community, but at least one person is probably against it. I ordered a shirt on Amazon a couple days ago that says “Hi I’m Bi” and, when I’m ready to, I’m going to wear that shirt to come out to them. I want to do it soon, but I don’t know if I’ll have the nerve to do so.

    • Anonymous says:

      I wish I would’ve been this clever when I came out lol

    • Anonymous says:

      I just told my family “fuck god I’m gay” mind you I said that in the middle of church… Let’s just say I don’t even really remember what my half my family looks like anymore because I haven’t seen them in years

    • Anonymous says:

      Honestly if they were truly Christian it wouldn’t matter that you’re bi or gay or whatever. Christian’s are commanded to LOVE EVERYONE and not to judge anyone. It’s the judgemental Christian’s that give Christianity a bad name… Just because they don’t agree with the act does not mean they can’t love the person.

  21. Anonymous says:

    Honestly, there’s a lot of things I could confess about. Maybe I could start with my ever so wonderful shit-storm I call my mental health! As a victim of childhood abuse of multiple types, sexual assault, and a fuck-ton of loss, There are a WHOLE LOT of effects on your head. Let’s name the main things for me. Anxiety, depression, PTSD, and being suicidal. I’ve had most of these since around 4-5 y/o. and it’s HELL. But with me being me I’m still too nice for my own good. I literally attract people like me, because I’m kind and comforting, and I always help them because they’re my friends but I rarely get help or get listened to. Only a couple people noticed when I’m literally getting so bad I might relapse back to cutting or try and overdose for like the 17th time. I don’t know what to do anymore.

    • Anonymous says:

      I have depression, so I can see where you’re coming from. Sometimes, you have to put yourself in front of others and make yourself a priority, so maybe you could tell your friends what’s going on. They can probably help you more than I can. But please, please, PLEASE don’t do self harm. I know someone who cut themselves, and they regret it. Tell your friends what is going on, then take their advice.

  22. Anonymous says:

    Does anyone know the best way to kill themselves in a house? We have a gun but that’s locked in a gun safe and I don’t know the code. I’m looking for something quick and painless. We have a pool so drowning myself could be an option.

    • Anonymous says:

      Don’t kill yourself, get help check into a clinic do something.

    • Anonymous says:

      Number 1 don’t kill yourself uh number two: pills. Anyways please don’t die

      • Anonymous says:

        Wow I’m actually really shocked. I posted this a few months ago when I was going through some of the hardest times of my life and I can’t believe I found this again. It really suprises me to see what kind of destructive mindset I was in. Looking from the outside in, ya know? But for those wondering, I’m doing much better now. I really do want to live my life out to the fullest. It gets better with time, and even if I didn’t believe that at first, I do now.

  23. Anonymous says:

    So a year ago (almost two now) my best friend came out to me as bisexual or at least bi-curious. I knew that she had a crush on a straight girl back then but that relationship never worked out. So much time has passed since then. Ever since she started dating another girl for the first time though, I’ve noticed that I’ve starting thinking about her more often in “different” ways. Maybe I’ve just started to admire her more because of how open she is with her sexuality, but over the past month I’ve grown a serious crush on her. I myself identify as a straight girl, and have never even considered myself to be a part of the LGBT community until now. The thought of coming out or proving my suspicions true terrifies me, but I also think that something could actually happen between us, and that excites me too.

    • Anonymous says:

      Don’t be scared to come out, it will do wonders to your mental health. Coming out as Bi or Pan shouldn’t scare you just embrace yourself as who you are.

  24. Anonymous says:

    poaching is porn stars

  25. Anonymous says:

    bitch

  26. Anonymous says:

    HELP PLEASE, i want my wife to cheat on me

  27. Anonymous says:

    call to up rising

  28. Anonymous says:

    Gave in to lust. Please forgive me lord

  29. Anonymous says:

    i want a girlfriend so bad and i wish i didn’t bc im single af

  30. Anonymous says:

    i don’t think anyone wants to be knacked ! I sure don’t.

  31. Anonymous says:

    hi awfuls, anything juicy you want to share wiff me so I can cash the cow and piggy bank in?

  32. Anonymous says:

    I’m so tried of life.. low-key want it to end

  33. Anonymous says:

    Why should I care about others who don’t care about me? And then they get mad because I don’t help. Why should I? Do they suddenly have the right to be comforted by someone they don’t even notice? Is it my obligation to help them? I don’t recall them being my friend nor do I recall being their friend. They could vanish for all I care, if that’s the only way they’ll see I don’t give a damn.

  34. Anonymous says:

    a few years back i was fooling around with my gay lover reinhold. we mixed a batch of concrete and i reclined on the table with my feet up on the wall. reinhold then placed a funnel in my rectum and poured in the mixture.

  35. Anonymous says:

    99% of whats said is purely made up fantasy

  36. Anonymous says:

    i hate this kkinda situation

  37. Anonymous says:

    this is a college! not a pressure cooker!!!

  38. Anonymous says:

    Your very beautiful in the morning

  39. Anonymous says:

    I have. A urge to try something I don’t. No how veto go about it